Hi friends! How are you? Allow me to share something that happened recently. While I was taking coffee in a cafe, I saw a teenager answering back and cussing his old mom who was reprimanding him. Many people witnessed the incident. Some people walking in the street stopped. They were disturbed and alarmed. I feel that there were people who would like to help and intermediate. It was really a humiliating and embarrassing situation. There were mixed feelings and reactions from people who saw what happened. I only had one feeling then. I pity the child for he does not know how to treat well and respect the person who carried him in her womb for 9 months, took care of him for years and loves him so much. I feel sorry for the old mother for the humiliation, hurting words and disrespectful gesture she received from the person for whom she sacrificed her life, time and resources. This incident made me think of my own mother.
I’m so blessed that I have a mother whose love for me is unfathomable. She has been by my side since I was born. She is ready to lend her listening ears when I have stories and problems to share. She extends her shoulders where I can cry on when I’m down and hurting. She offers her hand when I need assistance and help. Even though I hurt and disappoint her sometimes, she continues to forgive and accept me. Nothing can be compared to the selfless love she has for me. I won’t exchange her for something/someone else. To me she is the greatest mom in the world. At present, I miss her so much. I have my own family now. And we live in a separate house. Though we are far from her, I make it a point to visit her regularly and greet her on special days. She is my exemplar of character, good values, maternal love and good parenting. And so, I am trying to be like her in the way I rear and take care of my kids.
Mothers’ Day is an opportune time for us to give honor to our mothers who play a vital and significant role in our lives. Without them, we would not be here. Without their love and care, we would not become good persons. On this day, we give back to our mothers the love and care they have given us. Let’s make this day a special and memorable one for them. Let them feel that they are loved. No matter happens they will forever be etched in our hearts. Indeed, they are angels in human form! They are heaven-sent!
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Close your eyes for a while. Think of the face of the person who has/had a great impact and influence in you. He may be your 4th grade teacher. She may be your supervisor in the office. He may be your pastor in the Church. He may be your dad. She may be a leader in your organization. That person may be anyone who touched your heart. Now, the same exercise will be done. Close your eyes. At this time, picture in your mind the face of the person who does/did not have any impact and influence in your life….. I will give you one minute…. Are you done? One more minute…… Are you through? 5 more minutes…. I hope that you have thought of that person now. Why did you have difficulty thinking of the person? The answer is simple. The person may not have any impact and significance in your life. The person does not have a special place in your mind, in your heart and in your life. We don’t waste time thinking and remembering people who are not significant. We don’t care about them because they don’t care about us.
Why are some of your experiences and encounters with selected people still fresh in your mind even though they happened long time ago? Because these people are true leaders. They are leaders in their own way and in their own field. Leaders are those who guide, assist, motivate, encourage and inspire you. They lead you to the level or goal where you ought to be. They bring out the best in you. They push you to the limits. They maximize your potentials. They help you reach your goals and fulfill your dreams. However, these tasks and responsibilities cannot be done by a dealer, but can only be handled by a leader. A person should possess and exhibit leadership qualities, and not dealership skills.
Dealership is founded on position, Leadership is founded on influence. Dealership is based on fear, Leadership is based on respect. A Dealer manipulates people, a Leader influences people. A Dealer commands, a Leader serves. A Dealer thinks of what he can get, a Leader thinks of what he can share. A Dealer enforces, a Leader motivates. A Dealer intimidates, a Leader inspires. A Dealer is inconsiderate, a Leader is caring. A Dealer is selfish, a Leader is selfless. A Dealer drains, a Leader nourishes.
Pause and ask yourself these important questions.
To your kids, are you a leader or a dealer?
To your spouse, are you a leader or a dealer?
To your students, are you a leader or a dealer?
To your parents, are you a leader or a dealer?
To your co-workers, are you a leader or a dealer?
To your friends, are you a leader or a dealer?
To your family and relatives, are you a leader or a dealer?
To the people around you, are you a leader or a dealer?
It’s time to evaluate and improve our relational and leadership skills if you want to make a different in the people’s lives. The words LEADER and DEALER don’t simply differ in the arrangement of letters, but also in the order of values.
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While I was doing the chores at home and my kid was watching his favorite cartoon show, I overheard a line from Winnie the Pooh, “There’s no such thing as too much hug!” This simple line made me think of the importance of body gestures in relationships. Oftentimes I see people expressing their love through gestures which may seem insignificant and meaningless, but may have have a great impact and effect in relationships. A mother hugging her crying baby may give the baby security and comfort. A father patting the back of his child with low self-esteem may help his child to believe in himself, and encourage him to give his best. A stranger introducing himself and shaking the hand of another person may send a message of trust and commitment. A couple’s kiss may express their love, intimacy and passion. Giving a person a high five may brighten and make his day. These are just some of the many gestures we can use to express our feelings and emotions. The body is a channel and extension of our thoughts and emotions.
Each person is gifted with 5 senses, namely sight, hearing, speech, smell and touch. We use our eyes to see, our ears to hear, our lips to speak and our nose to smell. Each of the aforementioned senses is limited only to a single sense organ. But, the sense of touch is not merely limited to the fingers, but can be felt and activated in almost all areas of the body. Every area of the body is covered with receptors which are responsible for our sensation and feeling. Once a receptor is pressed and activated, it sends a message to the brain via nerves. The brain interprets the message as hard or soft, hot or cold, light or heavy, smooth or rough, etc. The sense of touch is so special compared with other senses.
According to experts, touch has psychological and pathological effects. Touching eases pain and lessens anxiety. A body message releases stress. A warm touch of a parent may boost a child’s self-esteem. Touching another person brings about medical benefits such as slowing the heart rate, dropping blood pressure and speeding recovery from illness. No wonder why both ancient and modern healers have to touch a sick person in curing a him/her. There is power in touching! These are just some of the many wonders of touch.
Touch is a love language. It is a meaningful and physical expression of one’s love. It can actually communicate love and care 10 times louder than words, and 10 times clearer than gifts. Touch is so powerful, that it can make or break a relationship. And so, we need to use it well. I’ve heard reports of couples who got separated due to physical abuse, that is, abuse in touch, like slapping, hitting, punching, kicking, etc. This abuse should not be tolerated because it does not build healthy relationship. Body gestures that hurt are manifestations of anger, unforgiveness, violence, lust and hatred inside a person’s heart. On a positive note, touch contributes to the deepening of intimacy and strengthening of love in a relationship. The heart can’t contain the feelings, and so there is a need to express it through a kiss, a hug, a touch, a pat, a handshake, a caress, etc.
Who among your loved ones need to be loved through this language? It’s time to get out of our comfort zone, reach out and spread love. Give your spouse a morning kiss. Embrace your kids when they go to bed. Hold the hands of our friends. Shake the hands of your co-workers. Put your hands on the shoulders of your parents. Touch hearts! Love people today!
You might be surprised, your touch may not merely bring about love, but healing, therapy, comfort and joy as well. Use the power of touch in your relationships and you will see them grow and blossom before your eyes! Let’s listen to Winnie the Pooh’s words of wisdom, “There is no such a thing as too much hug!”
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How compatible are you and the person you are with? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, long-term relationship. Do you know why your mate does or doesn’t attend church? Do you know how they really think about the way you dress? Have you ever asked your partner what are the three most sensitive parts on their body?
“An estimated 83% of divorces would not take place if couples asked each other the right questions”
Several months ago, a friend of mine discovered that her husband was once a heroin addict. When she asked him why he didn’t tell her before, he replied, “You never asked!”

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Actions speak louder than words. Although my parents will not say it, I believe that this is their favorite motto. I seldom hear them saying “I love you.” But, I can truly feel that they love me through the things they are doing for me.
First, let’s talk about my loving mom. Every time I visit her home, she always cooks and serves me my favorite dishes. Since I live in a separate home with my kids, I still miss the things that my mom is doing for us, her children. What my mom has been doing for our family is still fresh in my mind. Her day starts early. She used to cook our breakfast before we go to school. While we are taking our meal, she would prepare our school uniform and the bags we would bring to school. When we leave for school, she would wash the dishes and clean the entire house. At midmorning, she would cook lunch for my father and my younger siblings, then washes the dishes afterwards. In the afternoon, she would go to the grocery store to buy items and food that will be needed for the next day. Then, she prepares our appetizing dinner in the evening, and washes the dishes after dinner. She even manages to help us in our assignments and lessons in school. If there will still be time, she will wash the clothes, and iron them. She retires late at night. This has been her daily routine for many years. She never gets tired, bored and burned out. Why? It is a labor of love.
Now, let’s talk about my responsible father. He is always there to help me. I can still remember him driving us to school every morning and fetching us in the afternoon when my siblings and I were still studying. My dad is just a call away. When my car got towed, he rushed to the place few minutes after I had called him. When my kid got locked up in the bedroom, he came to the rescue. During my first year of living in a separate house, he extended his assistance to us in fixing plumbing and electrical problems. That’s my dad! He never runs our of energy to help us. Why? It’s a labor of love!
There are people who express their love through acts of service. They do them without being told, because it is their nature and their love language. They feel content, fulfilled, happy and appreciated when they serve people. Loving acts are living expressions of love. They have more impact and more meaning. They will never be forgotten. They will forever be etched in the hearts of people dear to you.
Be creative in serving your loved ones. Surprise them! Know what they like. Love them in the way they want to be loved. Get out of your comfort zone and invest in your relationships. Serve your spouse a breakfast in bed. Pause from your busy schedule, and accompany your kids in their sports events, dance contests or buying their clothes. Help your friends in their chores. Feed and take care of a sick family member. Pay your parents a visit, give them a relaxing massage. Bear in mind that actions speak louder than words. Words are not enough. They should be translated into actions to make love real and tangible.
When is the last time you served your spouse, your kids, your family and loved ones? What’s the last deed you have done out of love? Here’s the challenge for you. Create a list of acts of service you plan to do for your loved ones. At the end of the week, check what you will be able to accomplish. Expect that your relationships will never be the same again!

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Hi! I want to tell you something about my special friend. Since we became friends, I have been her shopping companion. Every month, she invites me to accompany her in going to malls and stores, and buy stuff like cards, home decorations, shirts, perfume, food, jewelries and other things. Even though she does not have enough money sometimes, she makes it a point to shop once a month. Out of curiosity, I asked her about this intriguing monthly hobby of her. “What are these for? When will you use them?” I was surprised by her answer, “I will not use them.” “What!”, I replied, “Why are you buying things if you won’t use them? Why are you wasting your money?” With a smile on her face she answered, “They are not mine. I will give them to my friends and loved ones.” After years of accompanying her in shopping, it’s only then when I discovered that she does not miss sending gifts to her loved ones and friends on their birthdays, special occasions and holidays. She loves giving gifts as expression of her love and appreciation for a person. I believe that this is also her love language. The way we often express our love to your friends is the way we want to be loved as well.
Gifts are concrete, visible and tangible expressions of our love for others. The price of the gift does not matter. In the language of love, a brand new car has the same value as a simple card. It is the thoughts that count. What is important is that you remember the person on his/her special day. Have you experienced being ignored, left out and abandoned? It’s also the feeling when special days that mean to you are forgotten by people dear to you. There are many people in a relationship who broke up for not being remembered and not receiving gifts on their birthdays. There are many married couples who separated for consistent disregard, and not receiving gifts on their anniversaries. There are many friends who fought for not greeting each other and not receiving gifts during holidays. It may seem simple and small, but it means a lot to people whose love language is receiving gifts. It’s the fuel to his love tank. It’s the fire that ignites his heart. It’s the energy that animates his life. It’s the oxygen that sustains him. It’s everything to him.
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