Stress Management – Is a Change Really as Good as a Holiday?
Posted on February 20th, 2009 by Maryann in Personal Development Articles, Stress and AnxietyDo you think a change is as good as a holiday?
Well, it is and it isn’t – here’s why…………
My Nanna used to say “a change is as good as a holiday”.
I never paid attention as I didn’t really get it!
I remember the first time I heard “A change is as good as a rest.” They weren’t wise words from my Nanna, or part of an expensive motivational seminar – I heard it on a cartoon that my children were watching. It has stayed with me ever since, and I have put it to work in my life when I have felt tired, stressed or just plain bored.
How many times do you hear yourself say “I need a holiday!”? Your life is busy with routines – work, school, laundry, bringing the kids to all of their activities, so it’s no wonder that you feel hassled, stressed or on a running wheel that you can’t seem to get off of.
For some people, just the word “change” can be really stressful. They associate it with major events, like having to get a new job, a household move or an event that requires a major effort on their part.
But there are many changes that we can make that can refresh us on a daily basis, some serious and others fun. Many of the options for change are not things that we even normally consider a “change,” but they are things we can do to refresh our daily lives and maintain the balance we need.
Maybe your job seems boring, or your daily schedule seems endlessly tiring. You tell yourself you need a vacation, or convince yourself that you just need to get away from it all. But guess what? It’s all there when you come back, and all of that blissful feeling of well being ends in the first meeting at work, or even in the first hectic morning back in the routine.
We all need to find the basic qualities that make our lives fulfilling and meaningful. These become the elements of our lives – the fundamental components that make us whole. Recognizing these elements is not enough – the key is to find the balance that reflects the importance and priorities of our lives.
To achieve lasting stress management, we need to change the way we think about things. Once you know what’s important to you and focus on it, you will achieve more and be happier.
Once you are happier, things won’t stress you out like they used too!
Of course a holiday is great! It’s time to get away from the norm and have a bucket load of fun! Let your hair down and relax – now there’s a bit of short term stress management for you!
If you want that stress free feeling to continue when you return home to your life and your job, you need to focus on what’s really important to YOU and You Only!
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I agree with you Linda – it is hell!
especially if you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel.
It’s great to know there are people like you around who can help when the going is just to tuff!
Will power can overcome everything – I know that for a fact!
Thanks for visiting hope to see you again soon.
Kymmy
Living life with stress is actually living in hell. Its you who can fight your stress. A change or going for a holiday no doubt helps but ultimately its your will power and the way in which you handle your life, that matters. Me being a counselor would always suggest to relax and go ahead with life instead of over-stressing yourself. If you still think you cant handle it anymore then go for stress management counseling…I am sure it will help you.