Big Fat Liar, How To Become A Human Lie Detector

Have you been fed lies lately? how do you know?
Would you like to become a human lie detector? If so read on….
Lying can be a big thing or a small thing depending on your own morals and standards and how you see deception, but I for one do not take kindly to liars!

We’ve all been lied to and we’ve all lied at some point in our lives. But don’t you hate it when you uncover a big fat liar? It leaves you feeling betrayed and hurt.

Today I would like to discuss ways you can spot a liar from a mile away and therefor protect yourself before you get hurt – this is about how to find that big fat liar by being a human lie detector! The following thoughts are in no particular order, just have a think about the people you know while reading….

This is what a Human Lie Detector should look for:

1. A hunched over posture is a good indication of a liar.

Confident people sit up straight with their shoulder back. Insecure people sit hunched over with their hands in their pockets. It’s also interesting to note that studies have shown those who are insecure are more prone to lie.


2. A liar will often cross his or her arms across their body as they speak.

They may even move objects like books or cups to create a barrier between the two of you.


3. The tone of voice changes when lying.

Listen for high pitched or lower tones than their normal speaking voice.

4. Body language speaks louder than words.

If the person you’re speaking to is fidgety, wringing their hands, or fiddling with their hair, these are often clues that they’re lying. Sometimes it might be nervousness because they are shy or naturally introverted; however, if the person you’re talking to isn’t known for being shy or nervous, then chances are they’re lying.


5. Eye contact is another thing to pay attention to when trying to spot a liar.

When you’re being lied to, the other person often won’t look at you directly in the eye. They’ll look down, off to the side, and every other place just to avoid direct eye contact with you. 


6. When a liar says contradictory things,

 it’s an obvious sign that they’re lying. Listen for discrepancies in their stories.


7. Liars tend to avoid details when speaking.

 Often they just stick to the bold facts and leave out small details in order to keep their story straight.


8. If questioned enough…..

 liars won’t be able to remember all the details of a lie or string of lies they’ve told. Most liars will attack or leave before they’re caught.


9. When talking to a liar….

 he or she will often hesitate in their speech while thinking up a lie to fit the occasion. This could be clearing their throat, taking a deep breath or simply pausing before responding.


10. Eye movement is another thing to look for when spotting a liar.

 All people naturally move their eyes, unconsciously, one way or another when they are in conversation. If a person looks to their right (your left) they are often constructing lies. If they look to their left (your right) they’re truly drawing upon their memory in response. 


11. Changing the subject away from the current conversation

is another clue that you’re being lied to. Often liars will fill a conversation with obscure details that detract from the topic at hand in order to avoid telling the truth.


12. People who lie……

 tend to steer away from using pronouns like ‘I’ or ‘we.’ 


13. Liars feel guilty…..

 and may storm off or act out in anger to hide their deception.


14. Liars will often use humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.


15. Research shows that…..

 when a person is dishonest, they tend to touch their nose a lot.


16. More physical signs…

Heavy breathing, sweating or a tight jaw is another indicator that you may be lied to.


17. and another one…..

Touching the face may indicate a person is lying or uncomfortable. The higher up on the face, the worse the lie is. 


According to some studies, deceptive lying begins as early as four or five years of age. Children learn that they can avoid punishment by lying. If not dealt with effectively at this young age, lying can quickly and easily become a terrible habit.
(make sure you guide your children to future success ad accountability)

Don’t be lied to again. By learning to watch for these signs and behavioral patterns, you’ll be able to spot a liar with relative ease and you will have become a human lie detector!

And another thing….don’t be a big fat liar – its really not good for your inner being – nobody likes to be lied to and that includes you! Don’t lie to yourself – be the person you are happy with!

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